4 Dumbest excuses of a women that ruin a happy marriage

 4 Dumbest excuses of a women that ruin a happy marriage

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Many women often destroy happy relationships with their spouses with their own hands. Without realizing it, they hide from solving problems behind numerous excuses, not realizing that they need to work on relationships every day, invest in them with full dedication.

So, here are 4 of the dumbest excuses women can use to make excuses for their relationship problems.

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1. I want to have a romantic evening, but we can't leave the kids with anyone:

Yes, raising children takes a lot of time, attention and energy. But this is not a reason to pause the relationship with the husband until better times, "when the children grow up." There will always be worries and troubles, but love can go away forever.

Therefore, you should correctly prioritize, remembering that initially, the relationship between husband and wife was in the leadership, and children are the fruits of their love.

In the end, you can always find an opportunity to be alone and devote a few hours to each other, hiring a nanny for the children in advance or asking relatives for help.

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2. Our relationship would be better, but my husband is not trying:

You can constantly hide behind this excuse without taking the first steps. But this will not change the state of affairs, and the relationship with the spouse will remain at the same level if they do not start to deteriorate.

Yes, love is not only beautiful feelings, it as alot of work and each spouse has a part in this work on the relationship, for which both are fully responsible.

Therefore, before blaming your husband for all sins, a woman should ask herself questions. Did she do everything to develop the relationship? Is she paying enough attention to her spouse?

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3. We would have intimacy more often, but I am so tired from day to day:

This is a normal human need that must be satisfied, and abandoning it under the pretext of fatigue is a step towards drama.

A woman should understand one truth, if she does not want to destroy her own marriage, - time alone with her husband should not be allocated on a leftover principle. It should always be a priority and other affairs can be postponed.

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4. I'll try to work on the relationship, but later:

Now I devote all my time to children or career and one should not look for a manifestation of responsibility to live in it, this is not true. Since you can come up with many goals that need to be achieved, and only then it will be time to think about the relationship with your spouse and pay more attention to him.

Build a house, arrange children in a kindergarten or school. But when time passes, the children grow up and disperse, three houses will be built or bought, only there will be no relationship with her husband.